How to Get to Know Yourself

Hey, Lady Lions! 🦁

Let’s dive into a juicy topic: getting to know you. Yep, the real you—the one behind all the noise of daily life. Why? Because when you know yourself, creating a vision board that screams this is me becomes a whole lot easier. And guess what? I’ve got a free downloadable version of these questions for you to print, scribble on, and keep forever. Let’s roll!

My Story

If you haven’t already read my post on comparison (click here to catch up), it’s the prequel to this blog. Quick recap: I was caught in a comparison trap with a YouTuber. (Relatable, right?) That moment of why don’t I have my life together like her? turned into some deep self-reflection.

I asked myself some tough questions, journaled my heart out, and worked on loving who I am. Spoiler: it worked! I realized I needed to truly understand myself to become the woman I’m meant to be. Let me share how you can do the same.

1. Reflect on Your Values

Think of your values as your personal compass. They guide you when life gets chaotic. Knowing what matters most helps you set meaningful goals. Ask yourself:

• What do I truly care about?

• What do I stand for?

• What makes me feel alive and content?

Write down your top five values and how they make you feel. Maybe it’s creativity, kindness, or adventure. These values will shine on your vision board, reminding you of what really drives you.

2. Identify Your Passions and Interests

What makes you feel like a kid on Christmas morning? Your passions are the breadcrumbs leading to your authentic self. Ask:

• What hobbies or topics get me hyped?

• What could I do for hours without boredom?

• What activities make me feel alive?

Whether it’s painting, baking, or dreaming up new ideas, spotlight those passions on your board—they deserve the attention.

3. Reflect on Past Successes

Take a trip down memory lane and remind yourself just how amazing you are. Ask:

• What am I most proud of?

• What challenges have I crushed, and how?

• What strengths got me through tough times?

Your past wins are proof that you’re capable of greatness. Use them to fuel the goals you want to crush next.

4. Dream Big, Baby!

Ready to unleash your wildest dreams? Forget the how for now—just dream. Ask yourself:

• If fear, time, or money didn’t matter, what would I do?

• What do I daydream about?

• Where do I see myself in 1, 5, 10, or even 20 years?

This is where the magic happens. Let your imagination run free and turn those dreams into vision board gold.

5. Face Your Fears (Gently)

Here’s the tea: we all have fears. They’re part of the human experience. But naming them gives you power. Ask:

• What fears or doubts hold me back?

• What limiting beliefs whisper in my ear?

• How can I flip the script and turn fear into fuel?

Add empowering affirmations to your vision board that remind you: I’ve got this.

6. Connect with Your Future Self

Close your eyes and meet Future You. She’s thriving, confident, and living her best life. Ask:

• What does Future Me look like?

• How does she think, act, and feel?

• What habits and routines does she swear by?

Your future self is your ultimate muse. Use her vibes to guide the images, quotes, and colors on your board.

Wrapping It Up

By getting to know yourself better, you’re not just creating a vision board—you’re creating a blueprint for the life you want. These questions will help you figure out what truly matters, so you can align your goals with your authentic self.

So, grab the free printable (above) and a cup of tea (or coffee—we don’t judge). Let’s start this journey of self-discovery and make that vision board sparkle with you!

💛 Your fellow Lioness,

Lindy C.

Self-Care Enthusiast and Creator

*DISCLAIMER: I am not a licensed life coach, guru, therapist, or psychologist. Everything denoted in the passage above is personal experience. If ever something is wrong I will do my best to update information as soon as possible. 

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